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I like this post to be an open, non judgemental discussion for parents where ALL feelings are valid.Personally, I toying with the idea of reproducing. I not sure if it something I want to do, and for a long time I was 99% sure I never wanted children. That being said, I canada goose clearance love to hear the honest truth about your experiences as parents, especially if you were against the idea of being a parent before you had you kid(s). 23 points submitted 2 months agoI childfree myself so I can exactly provide any unbiased input, but I hear r/fencesitter is a good place for people like you. My advice: Be as well informed about all of the different points of view, read testimonies (the good and the bad), and spend a significant amount of time around children (I was actually considering having kids before I became a live in nanny lol). And whatever you decide, kudos to you for thinking this through so carefully!Needful_Things 15 points submitted 3 months agoDefinitely not something I take hard because I don directly work with any of these Canada Goose online people anyway so I couldn even tell you their names five minutes after the meeting ended, but it was just baffling to me how no one had anything to say about who they were. Did you just beat level 200 on Awesome Video Game? Did you rebuild an engine in a 1967 Chevy? Did you finally master an epic cut crease? Tell me about YOU, not that little Jimmy finally mastered pronouncing the words that start with R properly.OnlyEatApples23F/the only spawning I want to do is respawning 384 points submitted 4 months agoI have a number of reasons but, yes, this is absolutely one of my biggest ones, right up there with tokophobia.I just couldn do it. Canada Goose sale The expectations for mothers are so ridiculous (I see this in my sister case the societal pressure is real even nowadays), and I couldn live for the rest of my life with Canada Goose Jackets those expectations forced on buy canada goose jacket cheap me. Why would I subject myself to that? Just because of my biology I expected to canada goose keep an entire household running, while maintaining my figure and appearance to exactly what it was pre kids, while hubby gets a pass?jenthehenmfc canada goose coats outlet 209 points submitted 4 months agoWhat’s funny (or not) is that even more pressure is actually put on mothers NOW than say in the 1950s. “Parent” wasn’t a verb, cheap canada goose uk and most moms’ actual job was running the house when cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc was a lot more labor intensive. the kids were just kinda there, and so long as the were fed, clothed, went Canada Goose Online to school when it was time, that was it. Mothers didn’t feel pressured to enrich or entertain their children. Sure, they loved them canada goose uk shop and presumably spent some time playing with them and doing some activities, but they could also just throw them outside for hours while they smoked and finished the laundry and ignored the kids.Now, “parents” are super judged if kids have too much screen time, fed canada goose black friday sale the wrong things, canada goose factory sale not enough activities, too many activities, etc AND in a lot of cases are expected to / must bc of money / or really want to work outside the home.OnlyEatApples23F/the only spawning I want to do is canada goose coats on sale respawning 1 point submitted 5 months agoEhh, I knew even before I chose the CF life that my chances of finding someone were slim, and post CF those chances basically vanished. I slowly coming to terms with that.That probably not what you wanna hear but I been drinking and I feel like wallowing a lil bit. 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